The famous drummer Ara, who is divorced from her
Ice-land based husband says she is ready to start dating again for possible
marriage and this time she is even open to younger men.
In
an exclusive interview with the Saturday beats, she has this to say,
“When
I meet the right person and fall in love, I will consider marriage. I really
want to fall in love again. I don’t believe in marriage just for its sake. If a
younger guy comes up to me, I don’t mind dating the person. I don’t mind
marrying somebody who I am older than. I have spoken to a couple of people and
they don’t see anything wrong with it. If the person has a mature mind and is
committed, then it is not a big deal.”
When
asked if she is not looking for somebody who she can control and manipulate,
the singer said she is not the overbearing type and she never exhibited such
trait in her former marriage.
“I
am not that kind of person. I am the most submissive wife. I am ‘mumu’ for love. You can
ask my ex, he can tell you. There was never a day I didn’t ask him what I
should cook even though I was the breadwinner. I would always ask him what he
wanted. And whatever he said, if we didn’t have it, I would jump on an okada and enter the market
to go and buy the stuff. I am a hopeless lover,” she said.
Ara
revealed that she and her ex are still “good friends” because, “we have a child
together. My boy is six years already. He has remarried. I am not envious that
he got married again. God forbid! When he calls me, I always ask him if his
wife isn’t around. I would also ask him if his wife knows that I am not
interested in him. I don’t know her and I don’t know her name. I wouldn’t want
her to feel I want to take her husband again. So I tell him I hope the wife
knows that I am not interested and that his calling me is just to find out
about his son. I wouldn’t want to make any woman unhappy.
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